Saturday, July 19, 2008

How I met my American husband in marriage site - from own experience

Personal story of a Russian girl from small Russian town HOW she finally met man of her dreams after few unsucessful meeting with foreign men, written exclusively for Marriage site: Love Nikah: find your model princess

I was 18 years old when I first registered on a dating site. Earlier I never even have thought i would ever search for my life partner on dating sites. one summer day, my father came home from work and told me that his employee was getting married to an American man. He told me that she met him through the Internet and she would shortly go live with him in the USA. I asked her, and she advised me on which site it iwas possible to be registered. She told me that she met her fiancee on one of marriage sites online. Also she told me, that it is very easy and possible to find a decent, financially secure gentlman on this site. After he had old me her story I decided register on this site, and then

I had to wait about one month to be added on this site. But my experience of correspondence on this site was not very successful. The rules of this site are very strict and it was impossible to use my own e-mail in correspondence, it would allow me only to communicate through this site. After a couple months of correspondence, i finally communicated only with one guy from California. However, he was not any serious relationship, only for friendship.In couple of weeks, I had understood that it is necessary to search for another dating site. When you are on the last pages of a catalogue you receive almost no responses to your profile. as all agencies advise, i even had professional photo taken.

I understood that competition is heavy on these sites and that a guy would have to be attracted to your photo in order to be attentive to your profile. I followed all advice, I tried to look sexual and pretty. i smiled in all the photos.

After the photos were ready, I decided to be registered on marriage website for singles. For the first few weeks I received many letters, but i did not like most of the men who wrote to me because I saw no future in a relationship with them. On this marriage agency online I have found only friends for correspondence. After a while I registered on another dating marriage site that, later on, of all the sites I liked this the most, partly because I could remove my profile at any time.

In the beginning I used to receive 30 or more letters a day. But to my surprise, most of them wrote just a few letters, and then disappeared. The first whom I had met in a real life was a guy from England, whose name was Alex. We corresponded for about one month, then he decided fly to me. I met him at the airport, awefully nervous …. because he was the first who came only to me. After I met him, we booked him into a hotel! I returned home to prepare for the evening when we would go to a night club....

AFTER THREE hours we already were in club. I never talk with him on the phone, we just corresponded. I must admit that I did not understand him well because of his accent. I communicated with Americans more and did not think, that the British would speak with a different accent. in the club when the time approached to midnight, I invited him to dance with me. he told me he does not dance, was tired and wanted to return to the hotel..

We went back to hotel, and agreed that I take him to airport in the morning. We said our goodbye's normally in a friendly manner. But then he did not write for a long time and did not answer my messages. after a month I received a letter from him. He wrote that he was searching for a model, and that I did not look like one ....

The next guy I met in a real life was man from California, I corresponded with him about 6 months. He told me that in the summer he would travel across Russia. I met him and spent 7 days with him. I do not know why, but I did not trust him. Because he wanted sex with me on the second day. Of course I did not want to accede and said No. I did not wish to hurry the event and was probably right, as on arrival back in USA, he wrote to me a letter saying he had met other girls too in Moscow and other cities ...

We wrote to each other less and less and then he stopped writing..

I met one more man from this site…. But after our first meeting we understood that we would just remaint friends. So we stay in touch now.

Then, I began to correspond with a man who now is my fiancee. But that is absolutely another story....

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